First Up some notes.
These are the websites I used to gather information on
Turkey. And I have decided to call my imaginary classroom The Bunnies.
Now to my
thoughts…
I have just
received word that a family from Turkey will be joining my class. I am excited
about learning about this new culture and welcoming a new child into our Bunny
world. I want to do my best to welcome
this family.
I have done a
little bit of research and I’ve learned that Turkey has been through a lot over
the years. They have a parliamentary government.
They have been “settled” by numerous groups that has given the Turkish people
many ethnicities. They gave women modern rights in the 1920’s. They are also
one of the first Muslim countries to have a separation of faith and government. I was trying to
find information about how Turkey views children and children roles. I had no such luck. So I will just have to
wing it. I know that welcoming a new family will take time. We will not be BFF’s
overnight. I’ll just take my time and do my best.
I would
introduce myself and give a tour of the room. I will ask for family photos and
explain why. One of my websites said that asking questions is a part of Turkish
culture so that will be great for me. I will ask many questions in regards to
what they want for their child and how they see our relationship as teacher and
parents. I will ask them about toilet training habits, sleep habits, and eating
habits. Most of Turkey is Sunni Muslim –
I will ensure there is always an option for the child when we serve pork
dishes. I will ask about any other diet specifications. I will ask if they any story books or other comfort
items from home. I will also need to find out how they view themselves as
parents. I just realized this family may
not speak English in which case I will ask MCV for an interpreter. I will explain to them about our open door
policy and about visitation. They are welcome to come by whenever they have
time. We encourage our parents to take an active role in our children’s lives.
I will also put out
a bulletin about our new family to give my families a heads up and to gently
encourage them to be welcoming as well. I cannot control adult behavior. But Bunny parents are usually good about
supporting one another. I know we have other international families and I know
there are other Muslim families, maybe I can ask them what made them feel
welcome for more ideas.
Perhaps we will set
up a Family Meal. That’s what we call it when we invite the families and have a
big meal together. Turkish culture celebrates with hospitality and food maybe a
family meal will be nice. It will allow all the Bunnies and their families to
get to know one another.
I really want
all my children to form happy healthy identities. Being a child in a new
country is harder than I will ever know. I can only hope that I do a good job
and make sure this child is loved and respected as all my other little
bunnies.
Koni, I like that a Bunny from Turkey. The information that you presented about Turkey was very informative.I thibk the Family Dinner is a great idea to help make your new family feel welcome and I also like the part where you stated that the dinner would help Bunnies and their families to get to know each other. Great post.
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ReplyDeleteI think it is a good idea to give the family a tour of the classroom. I always ask for family photos because I found that when a child is having a hard time in my class I take them to the "Our Families" wall and show them the pictures that their parents have brought in. I designate one wall in my classroom as a family tree. I have pictures of them with their parents and siblings. I also put pictures on the wall of them when their parents volunteer in class. It is important to know all we can about the families that we serve and where they come from.
I love your bulletin board idea. I think this is important because that is one of the first things our parents see.You have searched a great deal of information regarding Turkey which is very good. I believe conducting research is a great way to learn informative facts about a persons history and culture. Great post!
ReplyDeleteI agree with you Koni having a Turkey dinner would definitely get families from all differnet cultures in your classroom to get to know one another. I think this will also help families engage in conversation and possibly build stronger relationships. Great post Koni.
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